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Author: Gee Muga

Christ Follower. Wife. Mother. Techie.
Physical/Sexual Intimacy, Pillars of Intimacy

Let’s talk about $.E.X …Part 2

Gee Muga August 16, 2017August 14, 2017

DH and I talk on a video:  

Physical/Sexual Intimacy, Pillars of Intimacy

Let’s talk about $.E.X

Gee Muga August 14, 2017August 14, 2017

Yes, Lets. As newly weds, my DH and I came with our own expectations about sex. We had different ideas, which sexual activities are “good”, the sex appropriate locations etc.  No one really talked to us about sex before marriage…like really talked to us… So it was very exploratory for us.  We decided that we

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Pillars of Intimacy, Social/Experential Intimacy

Not so much in common after all

Gee Muga June 13, 2017

When DH and I were dating, I felt that we were so alike and had so much in common. We both loved travelling and adventure, we both loved music, we loved eating out, we loved hanging out with friends, we loved going to the cinema for movies. Then we got married. The activities we did

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Emotional Intimacy, Pillars of Intimacy

Why are you so emotional?

Gee Muga May 31, 2017

DH has found himself asking me more than once why I am so emotional. Truth is, women are emotional thinkers and communicators while men are more logical thinkers and communicators (this could just be me) That’s why when I speak of an issue that affected me, DH is quick to find solutions to fix it.

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Pillars of Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy

Spiritual Intimacy

Gee Muga May 23, 2017May 23, 2017

Believe it or not, we are all spiritual beings. Fulfillment from believing in God fills a void on our being that cannot be filled by anything else. Sharing spiritual beliefs and affiliations will build spiritual intimacy.  You may not agree in every single detail of your spouses beliefs, but sharing can help in finding middle

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Intellectual Intimacy, Pillars of Intimacy

Intellectual Intimacy

Gee Muga May 15, 2017May 15, 2017

From the moment we wake up in the morning, our minds are active. Intellectual Intimacy requires that we share some of our thoughts with each other. Not necessarily the super intelligent philosophical ones. They may be thoughts like views on politics, finances, food, health, work etc. When two minds connect, they build intellectual intimacy.This is intimacy

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Pillars of Intimacy

Five Pillars of Intimacy

Gee Muga May 6, 2017May 6, 2017

I got some questions from a couple of people relating to developing or creating intimacy in marriage.  So we decided to look at this in detail. Over the next month or so we will discuss more on intimacy. Intimacy in marriage and any relationship is way more than just sex.  There are different levels of intimacy

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